I’m always conflicted about what to do with holidays (or not-so-holy-days) because some Christians get all up in arms about celebrating a day steeped in evil traditions. They preach about how Halloween is the devil’s holiday, how people who worship satan revel in this day because people set aside their normal inhibitions and allow their kids to dress up as witches, vampires, and other scary things and falsely call it “cute.” They claim that anyone who participates in Halloween celebrations are compromising their faith. Not participating in Halloween is making a stand for their faith.
Yet other strong Christians view Halloween as a harmless day for kids to get dressed up and get candy. They see no reason to keep their children from having a good time with their friends at school parties or in neighborhood Trick or Treating. They say that obviously they don’t worship the devil and aren’t participating in any “evil” traditions. Halloween has changed from an evil day where devil-worshippers romp freely about to a day where kids get a chance to have a little fun dressing up as someone different – a chance to use their imaginations. It’s no big deal to dress up as something that “used to be evil” – there’s no such thing as witches anymore, they say. Besides, they add, rejecting Halloween and saying it’s evil is judgmental and a “turn off” to people who think Christians hate everyone who isn’t like them.
Then there are the Christians who offer “an alternative” – Trunk or Treat, where a bunch of people meet in a church parking lot to hand out candy in a “safe” environment. No gory costumes or evil decorations allowed. After all, it’s not fair to say that your kids can’t get to dress up at all! So rather than participate in normal Trick or Treating where their kids might be exposed to who knows what, they provide a fun place where everyone can enjoy themselves without “compromising their beliefs.” And, hey, everyone is invited, so they are even reaching out to “non-believers”!
The same thing happens with Christmas and Easter: Extremists say we shouldn’t even try to say these are “Christian” holidays – they both have pagan roots. Easter comes from Ishtar, a pagan godess who represented fertility. A quick Google search reveals some websites that claim Christians who celebrate Easter are not, in fact, celebrating the resurrection of Christ, but the tradition of idolizing the goddess of fertility – Easter eggs, ham, a giant bunny (reproducing like rabbits, I guess?), and even Lent and sunrise services are apparently connected to this occult holiday. Of course, at the opposite end are Christians who tell their kids the Easter Bunny is coming to bring them Easter Eggs so that we can rejoice in new life – symbolic of Jesus becoming the “first fruit” of the new resurrection and life. (Though I might argue that this would better be celebrated during the harvest?) Then there are those who say that they ignore the “pagan” parts and simply celebrate Jesus’ gift of his blood and life to cover and atone for our sins. And let’s not mention Santa, his reindeer or all the baggage people like to carry on about with Christmas. (You know that Christmas has nothing to do with the actual date of Jesus’ birth, don’t you?)
So what’s a person who loves Jesus and wants to show His love to the world supposed to do? Do I “take a stand” and reject everything that doesn’t come from Godly origins – to be an example of purity to the world? Or does that come across to the “world” as judgmental and intolerant? Isn’t that the image we want to avoid? Is there a middle ground? Is it possible to participate in any of it without compromising our beliefs?
For me it always comes down to the age old question (well, decades old question, anyway) – What would Jesus do?
Well, golly, I don’t know for sure. I don’t see Jesus dressing up as a vampire, but maybe as Superman? Would He hand out candy – or maybe spiritual tracts? What I do know is that He was not by any means intolerant of “bad people” in those days. He was far more critical of the religious people who judged everyone around them while ignoring the planks in their own eyes. (Matthew 7:3) And he called the religious people “whitewashed tombs” – clean on the outside, but full of rotting carcasses on the inside. (Matthew 23:27)
No matter what I do with my family, I don’t want to be a whitewashed tomb. Whatever I choose, I need to keep love at the forefront of my mind. Rather than saying, “Well, this is what we do,” and feeling like it must be the only way to do things – well, I think we ought to keep in mind that Jesus came to provide freedom for us – freedom from living under legalism and the law (the Old Testament Law, not that we can break our government’s laws). It’s good to have convictions and to live by them – but as Paul said, “Everything is permissible for us.” (1 Corinthians 10:23) Of course, he went on to say that “not everything is beneficial” for us. That means we have to use common sense and understanding as provided by the Holy Spirit – that there are things we have freedom to do, but that not all of them are wise. In other words, we are allowed to make choices based on prayer and what we feel God would approve of. Christ died so that we could all make our own choices and live our lives in a way that is pleasing to Him – with only the desire to please Him and not anyone else. Our decisions shouldn’t be based on what anyone else thinks, but on the heart of God. Likewise, we shouldn’t worry about what others do or think – it’s not their opinions that matter. It also means that we don’t have the right to impose our convictions on everyone else – we all have freedom! Rather than preaching my convictions about any particular holiday tradition to everyone else, I need to live out what I’m convinced God would be pleased with and simply love everyone else even if they don’t do the same things I do.
So rather than tell you what my family does for Halloween – dress up, Trick or Treat, Trunk or Treat, nothing – I’m just going to tell you that I love you, no matter what you decide do to: today, for Christmas, for Easter, with the Tooth Fairy, or anything else that people like to get all spiritually argumentative over.
Happy Day of Love, people. Because love is what it’s all about – this day and every other day.