So I’m having some good health days mixed in with the not-so-good days. I even rode my bike this past weekend. I’ve gotten several headaches, but they’ve all gone away with a Diet Coke and some Excedrin. My neck hurts like it always has, but I know how to live with that, miserable as it is. So I ought to be overjoyed, right? And I am happy – I’m relieved that not every day is going to be horrible. Funny thing is, I’m not sure exactly why I’m feeling better – I haven’t worn the collar or vest as much as prescribed because I haven’t been home. I keep intending to put them on, but I can’t drive with them and it has been too warm to leave them on when I’m out. I’m thinking hormones – they can make things swell and joints get loose or tight. Who knows?
Anyway, I’ve been afraid to tell people that I’ve been feeling better. And I think I have pretty good reason for that. First, as I’ve said lots of times, I know that God doesn’t always do what we want. When I got pregnant right after Ethan’s big lung surgery, I believed it was an answered prayer. So what do I call it when I have a miscarriage at the end of my first trimester? A answered fear? Tom and I had already told everyone we were having a baby because we’d seen its heartbeat and everything looked good. If you’ve ever had to un-tell people something like that, you know that it’s an awful feeling. The worst.
I guess I’m also afraid that if I tell people I feel a little better, they will assume I will continue to feel better and forget about me. Now I hate having people ask how I am all the time, but I do so appreciate prayers. I don’t want people going to their prayer journals and marking me off as “answered”. I know that God can heal me completely, but I also know that I’m not healed completely. Does thinking that mean that God is in heaven saying, “Oh, she’s not claiming healing, so I can’t heal her”? Nope. No way.
So I’ll put it this way: I am healed in Jesus’ name. My spirit is whole and, though scarred, healthy. I can survive anything that comes my way because Jesus lives in me and gives me strength. In fact, when I am weak, He does His best work. The Bible says that our bodies are outwardly wasting away – sounds like aging and imperfections to me. God might spontaneously decide to make my body fully young and healthy again, but if it continues to waste away – well, I look forward to the pain-free eternity that awaits me after my body is dead. How’s that for faith?
I’m sorry I’m afraid – and I’m sorry for people who think that fear represents a lack of faith or trust. But I’d rather be honest about how I feel than to try to put on a brave face and act like I think I’m all better. If God tells me that He’s going to do a big miracle for me, I’ll let you know. Until then, for now, I’m feeling ok. Tomorrow? Who knows? I have no expectations either way.