I’m in a house on the shore of Lake Erie waiting for the rain to stop so we can go swimming. Every day this week, we’ve had beautiful weather and I haven’t even opened the computer for anything (until last night when I got an e-mail announcing Land’s End’s end of season swimsuit sale – now the kids all have new suits for next year in the mail) because I haven’t felt like it. On vacation, you can pretend the real world doesn’t exist. You can pretend that nothing bad is happening anywhere in the world because you’re watching your kids splash and swim in the water like fishes and digging holes to China in the sand with their cousins. On vacation, you can watch the sun set over Cedar Point and imagine that, even though it’s miles away, you can hear people screaming on the roller coasters. You can eat cookies and chips and drink pop and pretend there are no calories (ha!).
(On a side note, on vacation you can stress about trying to make everybody happy when you’re staying with more than one family. You can stress about the weather, sunburns, and schedules. You can worry about your kids waking everyone up before 6:00 and whining all day because they stayed up too late, again. You can stress about making sure your kids don’t eat too much junk or telling on their cousins even though they aren’t being angels either.)
I’ve thought of lots of silly things to write about – cute things the kids said (like Sienna who was singing “This Little Light of Mine” and said “Won’t let Santa pffff it out, I’m gonna let it shine”), how amazed I am at how well my kids are swimming. I have watched Ethan in swim class – he jumps into the deep end and can swim to his instructor, so I knew he was doing great; but the girls shocked me because, without noodles or swim rings, they would sort of dive under the water and kick their feet (Sienna with her little bum way in the air) and actually move forward.
I thought about writing about how it’s so hard to not worry that I’m going to upset Tom’s family (with whom we are vacationing) because we doing things differently. (You know I always worry about making sure people know that just because I do things a certain way doesn’t mean I think everyone has to do it that way – that I’m right and they are wrong.) I’m a bit anal retentive – I have a hard time letting go of normal routines and diets even on vacation, especially where the kids are concerned. I feel like I seem like a mean mommy for saying “no” to my kids if they ask for too many treats, or if I say it’s time for bed at 8:30 or 9:00 or if I insist they take a nap one day instead of swimming more or going some place fun.
I thought about writing about how much I hate vitiligo and how I feel like a leper or how I have eaten too much and feel like a big blob – and yet I keep eating and eating.
I thought about writing how I’ve only had one bad headache this week and how that makes me happy and scared at the same time; happy because I feel good, scared because I doubt it will last.
I even thought about writing about “The Count of Monte Cristo” because I just finished reading it on my Nook yesterday. (And even how I love my Nook!!) How amazingly “religious” Alexandre Dumas was. I was truly awed by how faith played the most significant role in the book without seeming like it was a “Christian” book. In fact, I’ve read several “classics” recently and so many of them just assume that everyone believes in God and He just plays a natural part in those books. Too many “Christian” books these days feel so forced. It makes me excited to think that someday, in heaven, I’ll meet the author of “The Three Musketeers”!
But in the end, I didn’t feel like writing about any of those things because, even though it’s raining, I’m still on vacation and I don’t feel like thinking hard enough to write about anything deep or important. I don’t feel like proofreading or editing or even rereading anything I wrote. I just want to start another book on my Nook and pretend that tomorrow, we won’t be going back to reality.